If you’re not getting laid there’s a reason for it and it’s not because women are bitches that just don’t understand what you have to offer. There are plenty of guys that have taken such a view but it’s utterly dishonest and it only serves to protect their fragile, weak egos and prevent them from making the changes necessary to actually have regular sex. If someone wants to get laid they can so ultimately you’re the only one stopping you from screwing on a regular basis. Below you’ll find a list of the top reasons why guys don’t get laid. Do any describe you?
 
 
You Have Low Self-Esteem
You’ve probably heard countless clichés about how you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. There are a million different versions that all boil down to the same message: if you hate yourself why would anyone else like you? It makes sense, right? When it comes to sex the same thing applies. If you don’t seem to like yourself why would a girl want to have sex with you? Some guys blame their low self-esteem on women and become absolute jerks and they’re unbearable. You can fix this issue in a variety of ways (it’s far too big an issue to deal with in this short space) but in a pinch you can always try the fake it ’til you make it approach. Act as if you’re a confident man ladies want to sleep with and they will.

You’re Not Attractive
This is the one guys have the most trouble with, largely because they tend to see it as an absolute. That’s simply not true. If you lack a handsome face there’s nothing you can do about that, but you total control over your body, the way you dress, and the way you present yourself to the world. The truth is, unless your face was horribly burned in an accident you’ll be good looking enough for the vast majority of girls on an adult finder site to sleep with if you get the rest of it right. If you’re in great shape you’ll get laid more. It’s an undeniable truth. The better you dress the more you’ll get laid. Make yourself more attractive and you get to have more sex.

Your Hygiene is Lacking
This is a little different from the above but it’s in the same ballpark. If you make it clear you don’t care about making an effort the girls are going to turn their noses up at you. Good hygiene includes a good haircut/hairstyle, keeping your facial hair in check (no neck beards, gentlemen), showering before a date and wearing deodorant, brushing your teeth, etc. If you plan on having sex make sure you’ve washed your crotch thoroughly. The last thing you want is a burst of bad smell coming out of there when she goes down on you.

You’re Desperate
Women can smell desperation from a million miles away and it’s even worse if you behave in a desperate manner. This manifests in a number of ways. These include being overly complimentary, offering to do anything you can to make her happy, asking her a laundry list of stupid questions, generally acting like a puppy dog and much more. A girl isn’t going to sleep with a guy she has no respect for and a desperate guy willing to do anything for her is not going to earn her respect. Desperate men tend to be utterly pathetic and that’s anathema to getting laid on a regular basis. If anything you should act the opposite of desperate. For some women if it seems like you could take it or leave it they’ll be unable to resist.